mr.dishes/the way he loves

while i am on the subject of the loves in my life, i must bring up my hubby. tom is... well tom - take him or leave him that is just the way he is. he does not sugar coat things and he is real. it has taken me a really long time to put my "sensitiveness" aside and understand that. although he is a man of few words, he shows his love through his actions... now if you know me you know i read into e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g so.... living with someone who may say *or not say* something that really does not mean anything is hard for someone like me lol, because i need to know what it means! i have learned to stop, breathe and pray when i talk with tom lol. i think a lot of women tend to *read* into things that their hubby's do and this is what gets our panties all in a bunch lol... men are very simple creatures, God made them that way, he did not make them to stop and smell the roses, He made them to deal with the thorns and the dirt. God made us women to tend to the delicate parts of the rose and if we are so blessed to receive a rose every now and then ( wink wink - as if he is going to read this lol ). the thing is i know tom loves me and i need to remind myself daily how i know he loves me, even if he does not say it, so i want to start a daily post where i will dedicate one sentence to the reasons how tom loves me. i think this will help me and since i blog more than one a day most of the time... its no biggie! i think it will be fun and maybe if i tag him in the posts on facebook, he will see that little hint above haha!

so... here is reason#1 ~ i know tom loves me because all week he has loaded the dish washer every night after dinner.